Stay away from those who play the victim in problems they created.
Focus on spending time with people with whom you share a common future rather than just a common past.
Prioritize wisely.
Allocate more of your time and energy to those who have contributed to your growth and success, and who continue to pour into you.
This doesn’t mean forgetting those who were part of your past.
However, just because someone was with you then, doesn’t mean they should be with you now if you no longer share a common future.