The one who is never around is always the perfect one without flaws.
Close proximity to people will expose you to their flaws.
And we have the tendency to value someone whom we haven’t seen their flaws over the one who is always available and accessible.
The one who is never around is never wrong.
Value people, most especially the one who stayed!
– Pope
Levels to it
Level 1: Be good at something Level 2: Be good at something important Level 3: Be known to be good at something important. Level 4: Be consistent with being known to be good at something important - Not my thought!